RealMem: Benchmarking LLMs in Real-World Memory-Driven Interaction

AuthorsHaonan Bian, Zhiyuan Yao, Sen Hu et al.

arXiv 20262026

TL;DR

RealMem uses a three-stage Project Foundation Construction + Multi-Agent Dialogue Generation + Memory and Schedule Management pipeline to expose a large Oracle gap (QA 0.804 vs 0.567 for MemoryOS).

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THE PROBLEM

Long-term project agents still fail despite 0.804 Oracle QA upper bound

Existing memory benchmarks focus on casual or task-oriented dialogue, ignoring long-term project-oriented interactions with evolving goals and interleaved sessions.

In these settings, even advanced memory systems like MemoryOS and Graph Memory cannot close the gap to the Oracle QA Score of 0.804, leading to broken project states and inconsistent assistance.

HOW IT WORKS

RealMem synthesis pipeline for project-oriented memory

RealMem centers on Project Foundation Construction, Multi-Agent Dialogue Generation, and Memory and Schedule Management to build coherent, multi-session project dialogues with dynamic attributes.

You can think of RealMem like a project management OS: blueprints define the plan, agents simulate users and assistants, and memory modules act as a shared timeline and notebook.

This design lets RealMem stress-test proactive alignment, temporal reasoning, and fine-grained state tracking in ways a plain context window or static QA benchmark cannot.

DIAGRAM

Session-level interaction and memory feedback loop in RealMem

This diagram shows how RealMem simulates each dialogue session via multi-agent interaction and then extracts and updates memory and schedules.

DIAGRAM

RealMem evaluation pipeline across memory systems

This diagram shows how RealMem evaluates different memory systems using retrieval metrics and QA-based generation under memory-only and session-based contexts.

PROCESS

How RealMem Handles a Long-Term Project-Oriented Interaction

  1. 01

    Project Foundation Construction

    RealMem initializes user personas, project goals, and project attributes, then builds a Project Blueprint, Event List, and Session Summaries to scaffold long-term interactions.

  2. 02

    Multi-Agent Dialogue Generation

    RealMem uses a User Agent and Assistant Agent, guided by the interleaved session queue, static project background, memory points, and schedules to simulate realistic multi-session dialogues.

  3. 03

    Memory and Schedule Management

    RealMem employs a Memory Extraction Agent, Schedule Agent, and Deduplication Agent to convert dialogues into structured memory points and schedule tables while cleaning redundant entries.

  4. 04

    Hybrid Evaluation on RealMem

    RealMem feeds queries to systems like Graph Memory, Mem0, A-mem, and MemoryOS, measuring Recall@k, NDCG@k, Mem Recall, Mem Helpful, and QA Score under memory-only and session-based contexts.

KEY CONTRIBUTIONS

Key Contributions

  • 01

    RealMem benchmark for long-term project-oriented interaction

    RealMem provides over 2,000 cross-session dialogues across eleven scenarios, with Project Foundation Construction ensuring coherent project skeletons and dynamic project attributes for realistic memory stress tests.

  • 02

    Three-stage synthesis pipeline

    RealMem formalizes Project Foundation Construction, Multi-Agent Dialogue Generation, and Memory and Schedule Management into a closed-loop pipeline where memory points and schedules evolve alongside dialogue.

  • 03

    Comprehensive evaluation of agent memory systems

    RealMem systematically evaluates Mem0, A-mem, MemoryOS, and Graph Memory using QA Score, Mem Recall, Mem Helpful, Recall@k, and NDCG@k, revealing large gaps to the Oracle (Recall 0.993).

RESULTS

By the Numbers

QA-4o

0.567 score

+0.070 over Mem0 in memory-only setting

Mem Recall

0.606 score

+0.077 over Mem0 in memory-only setting

R@10

0.6344 score

Graph Memory vs Mem0 on session-level retrieval

Avg. Retrieve Memory Time (s)

0.151 seconds

MemoryOS retrieval latency vs 0.013 for A-mem

On RealMem, MemoryOS achieves QA-4o 0.567 and Mem Helpful 0.606 in the memory-only setting, while Graph Memory reaches R@10 0.6344 on session-level retrieval. These results show RealMem can separate retrieval precision, generation quality, and efficiency for long-term project memory systems.

BENCHMARK

By the Numbers

On RealMem, MemoryOS achieves QA-4o 0.567 and Mem Helpful 0.606 in the memory-only setting, while Graph Memory reaches R@10 0.6344 on session-level retrieval. These results show RealMem can separate retrieval precision, generation quality, and efficiency for long-term project memory systems.

BENCHMARK

Generation performance comparison on RealMem (memory-only context)

QA-4o scores with Value = Memory on RealMem.

KEY INSIGHT

The Counterintuitive Finding

RealMem shows that A-mem achieves the highest Recall@20 (0.7235) but lags in NDCG and QA performance compared to Graph Memory and MemoryOS.

This is surprising because developers often assume higher recall is always better, yet RealMem reveals that noisy high-recall retrieval can hurt downstream QA more than precise ranking.

WHY IT MATTERS

What this unlocks for the field

RealMem unlocks a way to rigorously test whether memory systems can handle dynamic project states, proactive alignment, and temporal reasoning across fragmented sessions.

Builders can now benchmark agent memory architectures against realistic multi-project workflows, identifying whether improvements in retrieval, scheduling, or memory compression actually translate into better long-term collaboration.

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